Where is your passion? What makes you feel most comfortable? When do you thrive? You will flourish when you are engaged in occupations, roles or settings that are in accordance with your personality. If you find something that arouses your passion or provides a welcoming change, you forget yourself for a while. It’s like an emotional vacation.
There is no secret; be yourself. Don’t be afraid of asking question, don’t be afraid to seem stupid. Good questions are more useful than proposed answers. Where we stumble is where our treasure lies.